Expense CategoryAt Home (Catered)Restaurant or VenueVenue Rental$0 (your home)
$500–$5,000+ (varies by venue type & location)
Food & Beverage$25–$75/person (flexible catering options)
$60–$150+/person (set menus, service fees)
Service FeesOptional (based on staffing choice)
Often mandatory (18–25% service charge)
AlcoholBYO (big savings)
Venue markup (often 200–400% over retail)
DecorFull control—DIY, rent, or repurpose
Often restricted, venue may charge for extras
ParkingFree (typically)
May require valet or guest-paid garage/lot
Estimated Savings:
Hosting at home can save $1,000 to $8,000+, depending on the size and formality of the event.
Additional Benefits of a Home-Catered Event
BenefitDescription
FlexibilityChoose your own schedule, vendors, layout, and flow
Personal TouchMore room for meaningful details and personalized decor
No Venue RestrictionsPlay your music, custom beverages (alcoholic and non'-alcoholic), decorate how you want
Comfort & FamiliarityFeels more intimate and cozy for guests
No Time LimitsNo early shutdown or strict exit time
Pet-FriendlyPets can be included (if desired and appropriate)
Potential Trade-Offs to Consider
FactorAt HomeRestaurant or VenueSetupClean-upYou’re responsible (for hiring staff or cleaning up yourself)
Venue handles everything
SpaceCapacityMay be limited indoors or for large groups
Designed for large groups
NoiseNeighborsMay need to end earlier or notify neighbors
No concern—commercial zoning
LogisticsSometimes this Requires coordination of vendors, rentals
Turnkey packages usually available
Weather RisksUnless the weather is predictable anything held outdoors may need a tent.
Climate-controlled and reliable
Ideal Situations for At-Home Catering
- Smaller gatherings (under 50–75 guests)
- Backyard, garden, or indoor space available
- Flexible timeline or budget-conscious planning
- You want more control and customization
Options for dinner:
You don't have to use a caterer. Many local restaurants have set menus for larger events. Set the time for pick up or some may deliver. Even if there is a fee for delivery, most of the time, it is worth the convenience.
If you like to cook or bar-bq adding a Costco salad, rolls and dessert will easily lighten your load. If someone offers to bring a salad or dessert, say "Yes, please".
Prepare as much ahead of time. Relax and enjoy the celebration!