Expense Category
| At Home (Catered)
| Restaurant or Venue
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Venue Rental
| $0 (your home)
| $500–$5,000+ (varies by venue type & location)
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Food & Beverage
| $25–$75/person (flexible catering options)
| $60–$150+/person (set menus, service fees)
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Service Fees
| Optional (based on staffing choice)
| Often mandatory (18–25% service charge)
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Alcohol
| BYO (big savings)
| Venue markup (often 200–400% over retail)
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Decor
| Full control—DIY, rent, or repurpose
| Often restricted, venue may charge for extras
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Parking
| Free (typically)
| May require valet or guest-paid garage/lot
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Estimated Savings:
Hosting at home can save $1,000 to $8,000+, depending on the size and formality of the event.
Additional Benefits of a Home-Catered Event
Flexibility
| Choose your own schedule, vendors, layout, and flow
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Personal Touch
| More room for meaningful details and personalized decor
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No Venue Restrictions
| Play your music, custom beverages (alcoholic and non'-alcoholic), decorate how you want
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Comfort & Familiarity
| Feels more intimate and cozy for guests
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No Time Limits
| No early shutdown or strict exit time
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Pet-Friendly
| Pets can be included (if desired and appropriate)
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Potential Trade-Offs to Consider
Factor
| At Home
| Restaurant or Venue
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Setup Clean-up
| You’re responsible (for hiring staff or cleaning up yourself)
| Venue handles everything
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Space Capacity
| May be limited indoors or for large groups
| Designed for large groups
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Noise Neighbors
| May need to end earlier or notify neighbors
| No concern—commercial zoning
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Logistics
| Sometimes this Requires coordination of vendors, rentals
| Turnkey packages usually available
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Weather Risks
| Unless the weather is predictable anything held outdoors may need a tent.
| Climate-controlled and reliable
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Ideal Situations for At-Home Catering
- Smaller gatherings (under 50–75 guests)
- Backyard, garden, or indoor space available
- Flexible timeline or budget-conscious planning
- You want more control and customization
Options for dinner:
You don't have to use a caterer. Many local restaurants have set menus for larger events. Set the time for pick up or some may deliver. Even if there is a fee for delivery, most of the time, it is worth the convenience.
If you like to cook or bar-bq adding a Costco salad, rolls and dessert will easily lighten your load. If someone offers to bring a salad or dessert, say "Yes, please".
Prepare as much ahead of time. Relax and enjoy the celebration!